Plight of Women - A Reality OR Mindset !!!

A REALITY or MINDSET....???

"Hey whats up?" He msged
"Nothing much ya... Having dinner.. Wat bout uh" she replied as she made her dinner platter.
"Oh ! Whats for the dinner?" He replied
" aaahhh.. Its egg.. Half fry n roti... Wana join?" She sent a voice note as she was eating food.
He sent a voice note this time..
"arrrgghh.. Egg.. I left non vegetarian food.. "
She made a face to this n sent him a voice note..
"hawwwww uh left.. Y? Coz of ur gurl?"
He replied with a laugh saying, "haha bitch sometimes you have to do for God.. N nt sme1 in person"
She was in no mood of giving this up, she replies "oh come on.. Which god said that.. Infact Hindus kill animals for sme 'bali' thingy. Wat about dat?"
He too was not in any mood to give up, he says,"oh come on .. Uh r eating egg a unborn child of hen. How inhuman is dat now?"
hearing this thing she gets annoyed.
She voicemails back saying, "oh cme on dude.. Like seriously? an unborn child of a hen? -_- wtf? Here uh are allowed to kill an unborn child coz she is a girl, she even if allowed to take her breath is sold at a young age or killed her innocence. This aint inhuman ri8? This is completely okay!! bt eat an egg n uh tak abt god-karma-humanity. Treating humans worst than animals comes under humanity? Huh?" and she hits send !!

3 hours pass by and no reply :/ !

She feels betrayed..

The society in the so called "21st century" is still so backward!!

Killing an unborn innocent or rather a developed life juts coz she's a female sex? She being a girl has no ri8 to live? Even if she takez birth is made to suffer? Loose her innocence at a tender age? Sold to drunk truck drivers for a handfull of money or thrown in flesh trades!! She has to work bt not study coz "wats the use of education, anyways? She anyhow has to clean utensils and bear children!" so why not make her sit at home and made to cook food or to take care of male siblings? Or even worse make her work in paddy fiwlds or cotton industry!! She wil earn her manless dad sme penny!!

She has no right to go to thr school, open he mouth, fight against the injustice, treated worse than an animal.. She cant wear the clothes she wants, cant have male friends, virginity is her identity on the "1st night of her marriage", she cant talk 2 guys but is made to marry an unknown guy...

Why....???

Is India so backward even today? Financially or in term of infrastructure and population we are growing. Fastest steadiest... But are v really developing? Developing in he sense of mentality? are v really a free country? Where a young girl cant go to school, a girl in her early 20's cant work or roam after 7 pm or 8pm freely (or feeling safe for that matter), where a lady has to leave her career after she bears a child or even worse, if she cant conceive, she is a curse! A window is not allowed to remarry but yes, a small girl even before she starts her menses is married?!?!

I wonder... Yes in many places the scenarios are different.. But wen? Wen 100% can we girls/ladies have our own freedom? Wen can we all be allowed to choose??
From school bags to dresses.. From career to husbands..

We are on much stronger side compared to the male sex. But still even today we are considered weak..

If a girl is molest or raped its her fault.
If a guy dumps her for saying no 2 sex is her fault.
If she bears a girl child & not boy its her fault.
If the children are not raised properly its she at fault !!
WHY??

very few girls like me are fortunate to born in such families where we do get li'l freedom if not all. At least we get love and respect if not career choices! V can talk to /make male friends or even bring them home. But then again if neighbors see a guy at our house wen uh are alone, they think definitely 'gadbad ha'. 

People often forget.. WE are the nature.. we are the real god.. We bring a new life in this world. May it b a girl or boy for a mother its equal 'coz she has been involved in each and every small activity of that baby since day ONE of her pregnancy ! She can bring the child even if there's no dad to that child. she can work n cook at same time. She can b a father, a teacher, a friend, a guide... But still we are considered as weaker..

Ppl say we are emotional.. Off course we are at least that's a proof of our living.. Women cheat lesser than men.. They sacrifice more. They tend to keep mum not 'coz they're taught in parent's home likewise but they know when to say what...

She can take emotional breakdowns more maturely. She is more organised. She can go to moon also and can rub the utensils of other's house to raise money for her child's education /marriage..

she'z not weak.. She'z strong..

Mindset, emotionally, physically and in any other means..

She is the power..

She is the change..

She is the mother...

She is the nature !!!