Is it really okay, to not be okay?

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Life is not for a day or two, at least not for the billions and zillions of us! Life is not just made up of one single ingredient; it has a little bit of everything.

 From happiness, to sadness, from victory to defeat, from tears of joy to tears of sorrow, it has to have everything, only then it can be entitled as LIFE!

 I believe, sometimes, it is okay to not be okay. It is okay, to not have won a prize you were expecting. It is okay to not get married to the person you were deeply in love with. It is okay to lose something. It is okay to opt for an easy path. It is okay to eat a calorie-rich food when on diet, once a while, or cheat in on gym for that matter.

 Life cannot be planned. If it is planned, then it's not life!

 Once in a while we come across someone, who we love utterly, whose happiness matter to us the most, who even though they hurt us, we smile and keep loving them more! Maybe he/she won’t love us back. Maybe they will. But I guess it is okay!

 You won’t have everything and anything you have wished for!

 God works in very mysterious ways. He plans and re-plans things, so many things for each one of us.

 Surely you can call it destiny or whatever; it is all planned, by Him, not you!

 A lot of times, I have taken some road, while travelling, which I shouldn’t have had, but then half way through I realised if it was a good or a bad decision. If it was good, I enjoyed it, if it was bad, I would still enjoy it, but take a U-turn and search for the right path.

 A lot of times, we want to cry, to scream, to curse, and to vent out the pain or suffering we are going through. Some do it, some don’t. Those who don’t are either expert in letting go or silent keepers who know nothing would change by crying or cursing. But everyone, I believe has a breaking point, which changes us; either in a good way or in a bad way.

 It is completely okay to cry at 2 am when the floor is cold or to be happy when the world is going upside down.

 The only thing which stays with oneself is – oneself. People come and go. Situations keep changing. The seasons change too. And so do you. 

 At the end, keep yourself as the highest priority. No matter who says what and how?

 Don’t stay somewhere just because of convenience or with a thought of people who would never understand you as much as you. Never explain anyone, but you. Justify your actions to yourself and humanity. Don’t cheat. Don’t steal. Don’t beg. Don’t argue.

 When time comes, it would all eventually fall in place. You would then not remember most of the things, but it would all make sense, one fine day.

 Until then, live.

 Live a life, where it is okay, to not be okay, at all the times.


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